Trauma therapy for children
Driven by a vision of acceptance, curiosity and compassion, this is a place where kids get a chance to heal past emotional wounds and discover ways to love themselves for all they are.
Let’s create a world where your kiddo gets to be the star.
Struggling in a messy but miraculous world. I’m here to help you walk through the darkness into the light.
I am here to create a space where kids feel safe - - where they can feel comfortable talking about tough topics. In providing a place where kids can express themselves, we also increase their capacity and resilience so they can handle difficult situations. Children learn to relate to and deal with their problems instead of being overwhelmed or denying them — when we allow for frustration and difficult emotions to be present and acknowledged, we are able to help them pivot…stretch…and thus adapt.
Childhood trauma may leave one feeling lost and hopeless. The pain and trauma may follow them into their adulthood and influence their well being. Instead, we address unfinished business and listen to the protective parts so we can help them to understand and heal their emotional wounds. We seek to help them process their emotions without trying to fix them. Instead we validate them for where they are at, allow room for emotions and attunement to their own wisdom while helping them to see things more clearly.
Parents are simply doing the best they can with what they know. But parenting isn’t necessarily intuitive. I consider it to be one of the most important and difficult jobs we can take on. There is no perfect book or instruction manual. Each child requires a custom approach that is constantly shifting. Parenting provides us with an opportunity to look within at the wounds in us that are showing up as we raise our children. We need to take a step back from often unrealistic or high expectations for our children that arise from societal views, our own trauma, or even developmental milestones. This allows us to open up to more conversations that lead with unconditional love - without judgement or pressure for them to be someone they are not. Often academic or sports accomplishments dictate the child’s self worth — here we seek to re-create our definition of success for them. When they can love themselves for their core essence and their own personal life journey, we create children whose loving legacy will continue on wards for generations.
While I work with children, a part of the work emphasizes assisting parents to increase their own self awareness and understanding - - I refer to this as knitting parent and child relationship back together. This may look like providing what I call Optional Prompts. For example, facilitating discussion, connection, teaching moments, relationship building, attuning to the child or talking together on a deeper level. We look at the child and parents self talk and inner voice, as well as beliefs they are holding.
The work may incorporate art(s) for therapeutic purposes of self expression, self reflection. connection to self and others, and finding meaning in difficult times.
Little loves….you may have gone through some really hard stuff. Together, we start a journey towards allowing your nervous system to settle and help you shine. Know that you are not alone -you are seen and loved no matter how you feel. Offering a safe place to share. I am here to support you.
Let’s figure it out together
Therapy doesn’t need to be hard! But as parents, we are not born knowing this stuff! We do our best, but sometimes we fall short. There are so many things to worry about with our children’s well being….and when we see them struggling, we may not know how best to address the inevitable challenges they will face in today’s society.
That’s why I’m here to help you and your family. As your child’s guide, I am super passionate about helping them figure out the way forward while respecting, exploring and honoring their natural gifts, talents and inclinations. I am here to help them talk to someone caring beyond family, to offer a safe space to explore their internal landscape.
I love hearing that kids are bored! Fantastic! Let’s transform that into creativity and thinking outside the box. Redirecting their interest in spending excessive time on technology, social media and computers. I am a big proponent of creating a “ripple effect” —— allowing for expansion and growth beyond your child’s world, but also seeking growth and development for parents too. Win win!
Kids brains are unique. Their brains continue to develop and mature into mid to late 20’s. They may not have the words to describe how they feel. They also may not have any idea on how to express their feelings. They may be protecting themselves, having experienced trauma or adverse child experiences. Having a safe space to explore themes and life experiences can make the difference between a struggling child and a child that thrives.
Let’s focus on creating more:
CLARITY, COLLABORATION, COOPERATION, CONNECTION, COMPASSION
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